Friday, November 23, 2012

Romance is not dead.







     Courtesy, kindness for kindness sake, generosity, valor, romance, all strange and now seemingly alien concepts; there was a time when these things were standards.  What happened?  Somehow we have gotten away from taking other people’s feelings into consideration.  A smile cost nothing.  Very little time and energy are expended when we hold the door open for a woman, or pull out her chair.  What does it hurt to simply say please and thank you?  Being polite is really not that difficult and romance is not dead. Now it may be difficult to find but it's definitely not dead. 


     There are still plenty of romantic people out there, people who believe in happy endings. The fairy tale can come true.  Nowadays so many people are in a rush to just get what they can get here and now. Still others are so focused on themselves they can't see past their own nose. So many people miss out on the good things in life because their minds are closed, their eyes are blind and no matter how loud you shout, they cannot hear. The beauty in the moments of life just seem to pass them by because they don't take stock in their many blessing. 

     A lot of guys are so worried what their buddies are going to think that they miss out on meeting and getting to know many beautiful women. They see a woman and they say, she's too tall, she's too short, she's too skinny, she's too fat, look at her hair, look at her car, look at her outfit. They find everything wrong that they can instead of getting to know the woman, they judge her harshly because they are afraid their friend might find fault in her. God never made anything so perfect as a woman.  Keep listening to your friends and you will miss out on a lot of truly amazing women. Gentlemen, she is your other half and you are incomplete without her.   



     Men have forgotten how to romance a woman and how to make love to her. You don't just make love to a woman's body. You make love to a woman's heart. Many men will brag about how hard or how long they can pump and grind. Fools, making love is an all day process. Making love to a woman is accepting her and not judging her, its supporting her and encouraging her. It is holding her when she needs it, it's considering her feelings, its asking her opinion and actually listening to what she has to say. It is making her feel like she is the most important person in your life. It is putting everything else on hold just for her.  It is putting her needs and her feelings before yours. Making love is not 20 minutes of grunting and sweating, it's making her feel that you can't live without her. It's holding her in an endless embrace, its long deep kisses and soothing touches. It’s touching and kissing every inch of her body so she knows she is completely perfect.  When you are making love to your special someone or even just spending time together, keep in mind that it may be the last time you ever see them, you may be spending your very last moments with them, so make them count.  One last thing for the men, remember that when women loves you she loves hard, from the very depths of her soul, and that is where you have to go to romance her.
Dane Gilkey



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